Community Standards

The kind of place we're building.

Do This With Me Wellness is for people who have carried weight for a long time and are ready to do the work — together, at their pace. These standards keep this a place worth showing up for.

Be kind. Meet people where they are.

Every member is somewhere on a hard road. Assume good intent. Celebrate small wins. If a post frustrates you, scroll or step away before you type.

No shame about bodies, food, or money.

This is a body-positive, recovery-friendly space. No commentary on anyone's weight, food choices, budgets, or before/after photos. Ever.

Share experience, not prescriptions.

You are not your friend's doctor. Do not give clinical, dosing, or diagnostic advice — especially about insulin, blood pressure, or mental-health meds. Share your story, then say "talk to your doctor."

No diet culture, no sales.

No MLM shakes, wraps, cleanses, detoxes, coaching pitches, or challenges. No "just eat less" hot takes. If you would sell it in a DM, don't post it here.

No harassment, hate, or sexual content.

Slurs, targeted attacks, hate speech, sexual content, and anything sexualizing minors are removed immediately and can end your membership.

Self-harm content needs care.

If you're in crisis, please tell us — we want you here. In the US call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). Please don't post graphic detail; do reach out to your coach or a moderator.

Protect each other's privacy.

Don't screenshot, forward, or share another member's photos, story, or personal info outside the squad. What's shared here stays here.

How reporting works.

Every post has a Report option. Reports go to a human moderator. Consequences step up: a private warning, then a strike, then removal from the squad, then account suspension. Serious violations skip straight to suspension.

Questions or concerns? Message your coach, or reach a moderator from the Squad page.

Last updated 8/25/2026.